So many things can make us, human beings become
frustrated.
BFF… Such a nice song right?
Some people thinks that "Does BFF really exist???"
My understanding of
the meaning of a friend >>> Someone that you are comfortable with, someone
that makes you talk and listen a lot.
What I can say is time really changes a person’s behavior,
including ours and our closest friends’.
What will you feel if you talk to your friend but
he or she didn’t even answer you or give you any response?
“Am I talking to the
wall?”
(quoted from one of my lecturer)
Human beings are not stones, so they
have feelings.
What will other people think when he or she sees you talking to
the wall?
Very awkward right?
It’s really annoying as so many questions will arise…
"Did I do something wrong?"
"Am I not your friend?"
For me, I will think that "Am I transparent?”
(Huh! I believe I'm not)
I
have black hair, two eyes with black spectacles, a nose with 2 nostrils, a
small red mouth and 2 ears. You really can't see me? Oh yea, before I forget, just to remind you that I
have a pair of arms and legs too.
Okay, not funny right? @@
Some people think that silence is gold. Yea, it is.
But, at least, at least you should give your friend some response BAHHH, no matter how "busy" you are. Not too hard right?
A friend... when you see him or
her talking to other people in a different way or pretending to be someone that
he or she doesn’t mean to be, you will definitely get mad.
If your friend did so, it’s not wrong to point at him or her and say “Stop being hypocrite,
okay? Please tear off your mask!” You’re actually awakening him or her to face
the reality.
However, if I face this situation, I do not have the guts to do
so. Haha!
Anyway, I’m not complaining, just want to find an interesting topic
to share with you guys, since it has been quite a long time since I posted my last
blog entry.
Human beings are really not simple, as what I’ve read recently from
a blog post when I was doing a blog analysis for Discourse Analysis.
Humans are
really very complicated, some of them tend to be hypocrite, especially those
who are in the age of 20+.
Yea, everyone has their own life, I know… But if you
still see someone as friend, definitely you won’t exclude him or her in your
life and of course, you won’t do something that hurts him or her.
Whether you realize or not (you
should realize), you have actually neglected your closest friend, if you only can
see your “spouse-to-be” or other things that you think are more important.
Don't
ever neglect your friends or take your friends for granted, because… you’ll
never know the importance of a friend.
And of course, for me, my family is always my backbones. Without family, I’m nothing. Without our parents, I won’t
be here writing so much and you won’t be here reading this long essay.
So, no
matter how your parents treat you, scold you, beat you or etc. in the past, try
to open your arms and forgive them, because for every deed that they have done,
there is always a hidden reason there.
So, we should stop blaming and start to
forgive and forget.
I know it’s always easier to say than to do.
But, if you
never try, you will never know.
If we don’t try,
nothing will change at all.
So, learn to appreciate everything around us.
Do
not come to your friends ONLY WHEN you need them.
THEY ARE DEFINITELY NOT YOUR
TOOLS.
Friendship,
like phosphorus, shines brightest when all around is dark (Proverb) >>> a nice inspirational quote
I’ve written too much already.
~ THANK YOU FOR READING. ARIGATO GOZAIMASU ~
